I just watched Tyler Perry’s-Confessions Of A Marriage Counsellor;yes I know,I am terribly late,(school did not let me watch it,its been on my phone for ages).The reviews I got from others weren’t too good but as for me,it set some alarms ringing in my brain…What is it with Girls and the bad Guy factor???
I mean,we spend so much time praying to God for a God-fearing man that loves the Lord,a man that believes in no pre-marital sex before marriage,that is gentle and cares about us a whole lot.A man that will help us turn our dreams into a reality,A man that will practically be at our beck and call…and when we find him we drop him in a flash!
We prefer that bad ass guy that isn’t a Christian like us and tries his best to keep us far away from God and all church related activities,the one with tatoos,the one that treats us like trash,the one that beats us anytime we misbehave,the one that tells us we must have sex with him for the relationship to go on,the one we have countless abortions for,the one that doesn’t give a hoot about our dreams and aspirations,the one that runs us down any chance he gets…
I heard of a girl that dumped her fiancé,reason being that,”He loved her too much,He was too nice and did anything she wanted him to do”.
This is just one of the many bizarre cases.
I am really confused as to why this is so? Is it that the bad guys have more “swag” as they say and the good ones are no fun at all? Or are our emotions drawn towards the one that treat us bad because of our hormones? Are we attracted/addicted to pain?
I am in a deep quagmire trying to figure out the reason for this seeming anomaly.
Pls help me out.Do you know any good guy this happened to?pls do share.And also drop your two cents as to why you think this happens,it’ll be really appreciated…