Sit Back And Relax!

I was supposed to see someone yesterday. But then something happened and it just didn’t work out. We had to reschedule for another time.

But the above is not the essence of this post, it just got me thinking of the times before now when I liked someone and became so eager for us to see each other that I actually took the bull by the horns and went out to meet them-mistake number 1, signaling desperation to the man, signaling me pursuing him.

This time, things are different.
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Our First Husband + The Convo

It’s 10:38pm, it’s late, pretty late but I can’t sleep. Even after the hectic day I had, I still can’t sleep so I’ve decided to write.
Friday’s Love Letters is supposed to be up today anyway so let me use this as a therapy.
Why can’t I sleep? What am I thinking about?
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Another Reason Why We Should Marry Well

In the midst of the Holy Ghost filled atmosphere, something/many things caught my attention and one of them was her.
A little kid, a little girl, not more than 6/7 years old, speaking into the atmosphere like the pastor said we should, walking around and praying in the spirit. I could tell that she knew exactly what she was doing and for the one hour plus we stayed there, she wasn’t tired, she did not sit down, she kept praying… and I kept staring at her and prophesying into my future.

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Lessons From My Favourite Love story 3

Hello People!
Its Friday! Last friday for rest for me before all the bruhaha starts..
Hope you’ve being following the lessons oh…or you haven’t?
Ah, why na? See it here;
Lessons From My Favourite Love Story 1
Lessons From My Favourite Love Story 2

I think I will round this up today with two posts(ah,posting everyday na wire), one post now and the other at night if I can…

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A Prayer For Her…

I just watched one of Tyler Perry’s movies-“For Coloured Girls” (I know, I know, old news, I am way out of date) but I still feel pained in my heart…

I feel pain in my heart for the woman with the abusive  man she couldn’t leave and who finally murdered her kids by throwing them out of the window of a 5 storey building…

For the woman who had a terrible childhood of molestation from her granddad and who uses sex-one night stands with different men as a way to numb the pain..

For the 16year old with a bright future, but also with an unwanted pregnancy she got rid of with tools from the drunk lady in the ghetto for fear  of what the world would say, because of the shame of being young, unmarried and pregnant… Continue reading